Homestead House Before and Afters

Who doesn’t like before and afters? We came across this house in the middle of 2015. We were not shy when looking for a house to flip. This one needed to be stripped to the studs and since we had a 5 month old baby and obviously so much free time this seemed like a great idea. We started renovations in July and moved in the week of Christmas. This past year Jared and I have discovered the Enneagram and learned that he is an 8 w7 and I am a 3 w4. We have also learned that between the two of us, that means we legitimately think we can do all things. We can visualize what could be beautiful in places that are falling apart. We aren’t scared, we are excited. We are ready and willing to work. We like to get our hands dirty because, is there another way to live?


When you first walk into this home you are standing in the living room. It was a small living room. There was a dividing wall between the living room and kitchen with an arched doorway that led to the kitchen. The ceilings were low. It was dark. What were we to do but bust that dividing wall down. Space for a big dining room table was a “must” for me at this house. I wanted room to entertain. My dad made this dining room table with red cedar that was milled by his friend who has land here in Oklahoma. To the right we installed a cast iron furnace. It had to be brought in through the living room window because it was too big to fit through the door. We are the type of people who open the windows on the first chilly day of the season just so we can light a fire in the fireplace... and then we keep it going all season.

The next set of pictures are of the pantry, mudroom and laundry rooms. They had this area closed off. So we ripped off the door and opened it up. The previous owners used that area for storage but that room led to the backyard so we wanted to spruce it up and make it another usable space. We tore down the wainscoting, and replaced with sheet rock and texture. The floors were, from corner to corner, unlevel by 6”. We hired a friend to help us grind down parts of the floor and then add leveler to other parts just so we could lay tile.

The stairs. Wow. They were steep and completely not up to code, which was a theme at this house. When you are renovating like this the city has to come and inspect several times throughout the process and make sure everything is up to the cities code. When things that you haven’t even touched yet upon purchase aren’t up to code you have to make them up to code because this property is now yours.

We had four great years in this house. We brought baby #2 home from the hospital here. We dabbled in gardening. We had 2 sets of twin baby goats here. Said goodbye to our beloved Great Dane here. Sat on the front porch and drank coffee and watch the kids get crazy dirty while learning to use their imaginations in this yard. Grew relationships with people. The list goes on. Now it is time to start that process over again. We are sad to say goodbye to this beauty but are so excited and so gracious to start the next big project. I plan to blog THROUGH the next house and not wait until the very end to show before and afters. Hope to see you along the ride!

Why I love Essential Oils

A lot of people who have started using Essential Oils have a story of how they were at their last wits end and were desperate to try anything and everything to cure a certain situation in their lives that was beyond hard for them. My story is not the same and might not seem “as powerful” as other stories mentioned but I will still share what got me into oils and what has kept me ordering for over 2 years. 

I had heard about essential oils several times and had even attended a Young Living “starter kit class” at a yoga studio I had been practicing at but never pulled the trigger on ordering any oils. I am by nature, a frugal person. I am not always proud to admit that but in the end it’s just the truth. I also did not want to dive into the world of essential oils because it seemed overwhelming. There are SO many oils and they do so many great things! How would I know what oils to use (and how) if I got a headache or if I had a stomach ache? What oils could help me get to sleep at night? I told myself when, if, I got pregnant for the second time I would purchase a starter kit and take baby steps to learn about the oils! In October of 2016 I purchased a kit from a friend who I knew was working her business and had lots of education on the oils. The PSK (premium starter kit) comes with 11 oils and a diffuser. It is for sure the best bang for your buck when it comes to kits. I also signed up for ER (essential rewards) right from the start. I did this as a personal accountability to learn more about the oils as I went. I purchased $50 worth of oils each month and got points back to use for later purchases. More about that here

My friend who signed me up also gifted me an oils reference guide app that has been SO much help. Since that app helped me out so much I also gift it to those who sign up under me. I have been using these oils daily now for well over 2 years now and am even making a little side cash each month. I wanted to share that little tid bit today just in case theres anyone out there like me who wasn’t against oils or didn’t have an extreme need but was just curious in general but also a little overwhelmed. Educating others is one of my favorite things to do. I take joy in it. If you are interested in a kit reach out to me or sign up here. I will be standing alongside you during this journey and am here for any and all questions you have now or in 2 years when you’re still using these wonderful oils!

What I've Learned About Gardening

I get questions from people about gardening here and there. Every time someone asks me a question I feel so unqualified to even answer it because ya’ll.. I know as much about gardening as you do. I swear. I feel like people think I know how to garden because I have one. It is all trial and error over here. Ill give you my “secrets” to gardening. We will start with picking a spot to plant a plant. I plant from seeds because I can get a huge variety of vegetables, herbs and flowers if I buy them as seeds. I love purchasing seeds from Baker Creek. I have tried to start them indoors with a pretty low success rate. Patience is not my strong suit. I don’t take my time in slowly introducing them outside and the environment change can be too much of a shock for certain plants.

After you’ve purchased your seeds you need dirt. Good dirt. TLC or Minick carry Garden Ready Soil. We chose to do raised beds. We placed black plastic under the raised beds, then filled our beds with Garden Ready Soil from Minick. 5 tons of it to be exact. That is no lie and we underestimated the amount we needed for sure. We have 400 square feet of garden beds. You are supposed to fill them 8”-12” deep but some of ours only have 6”. Next plan out your seeds. Thats where you pop over to Baker Creek or wherever you are suppling your seeds from. In Oklahoma a few things that have grown well for me in multiple seasons are basil, cilantro, parsley, onions, okra, cucumbers, beets, carrots, butternut squash, spaghetti squash, zinnias, marigolds, pumpkins, sunflowers and watermelon. I am sure there are plenty more but these are the ones I have had success with. Here is a link to a video on companion planting in Oklahoma and here is a pdf as well. Grab a piece of paper and pencil and map out what you want to grow, order those seeds then put them in the ground after the last freeze! That is usually in April for me. Add some drip hoses. These are the ones we use. Trust me, this alone will change your whole gardening experience and success rate. Make it easy on yourself and get those hoses, set your timer and water your garden 30 ish minutes per day.

It is also worth mentioning that in other spots in our yard I have played around with Landscape fabric and literally placed it right on top of freshly tilled soil and have had huge sunflowers grow and several pumpkin vines come to fruition. That landscape fabric is heavy duty and chokes out the grass and weeds below it.

For most vegetables, herbs and garden flowers you will want a spot with lots of sunlight. Plants need good soil, water and sunlight. See! Easy enough. Weeds will also come with soil, water and sunlight. Sometimes they grow even better than the vegetables you planted if you let them. There have been a few times I can’t even see my smaller vegetables because the weeds are so rampant because, life. We went to Colorado twice this summer and when I returned home the weeks had grown 18”. That is insane! Luckily weeding is a form of therapy for me. This year when Charlie would go down for a nap I would grab Mia and a popsicle and head to the garden! She would play in the backyard while I weeded with the baby monitor next to me and I would get a tan and weed the garden a little bit until Charlie woke up! I definitely did not do this everyday but one or two days a week was good for my garden and good for my soul.

One of the harder parts of gardening, for me, is bugs. This is an area I can currently trying to learn more on but so far this is the knowledge I have acquired. When you plant the bugs will come. Insects you have never seen in your life come because you planted a food source for them. There are organic non-toxic ways to get rid of these pests. First, we purchased lady bugs and praying mantis from TLC as a natural predator. These two insects will work on eating some of the bad bugs while not hurting you or your plants. You should wait until your plants are at least 8-12” before getting these helpful friends. Win, win! Next, you can purchase diatomaceous earth and sprinkle it on your plants. You should wear a ventilation mask and sprinkle it on the plants on a low to no wind day as this can be harmful to your lungs. This works to break down the exoskeleton of tiny bugs that will cover and destroy your plants. This can also be used in your yard if you have an ant problem. The next thing we have used that has saved some of our plants is neem oil. Spray the base of the plant in the evenings. If you spray during the day the mixture of the neem oil on your plant and the sun blaring down can bake your plant. Spray when the sun has gone down.

Lastly, I feel the need to say I have learned little tid bits of information year by year. I did not wait to start a garden until I felt like I knew everything there is to know about gardening because that will never happen. I started with soil, seeds, sun and water and then learned a tiny bit each year. Every season I have some plants that do amazing and some that don’t make it. We did our first raised bed four years ago when I was pregnant with Mia and have done one each year since! It is rewarding and complete therapy for me. If gardening sounds like it would be more of a stress than a therapy for you you should support your local farmers by heading to places like Urban Agrarian in you live in OKC/Edmond or hit up the local Farmers Markets seasonally. Cheers!

Thai Chicken Ramen


This ramen. WOW. As fall swings in with an occasional cool breeze I start dreaming of warm cozy meals. One of my favorites is ramen. Specifically, Spicy Miso from Goro on 16th street in OKC. I might need to play around with subbing the chicken in this recipe for meatballs and adding some corn and bamboo shoots, but today I went right along with Half Baked Harvests Thai Chicken Ramen. Her pictures are much prettier than mine but I am working on it ;) She calls this recipe “30 Minute Thai Peanut Chicken Ramen” and when she says 30 minutes she means it. It took me almost 30 minutes exactly and I had the help of crying babies, needy dogs and while trying to also get pictures for this post. I bet you can throw it together in 15-20 without a problem.

Another awesome thing about this recipe is while the ingredient list is semi long all you have to do is grab those items and throw them in your instapot . If you don’t have an instapot you need one! It is the perfect “welcome fall” gift to yourself. I went back and forth on this kitchen item for a long time and now that I have one we use it ALL the time. It’s similar to a crock pot but instead of setting your meal and returning to it 6 hours later you can make frozen chicken in less than 20 minutes.. amazing. You can also choose to leave it on the warm setting for several hours and it can act like a slow cooker. It is a wonderful addition to my kitchen. Back to the recipe. The broth in this ramen is thick, creamy and so filling. My husband is an avid hunter and uses most parts of the animal he brings home. We have jars on jars of homemade venison, hog and chicken broth in our pantry, which made this broth especially good.

Thai Chicken Ramen

4 cups low sodium broth of your choice (chicken recommended)

1 can (14 oz) coconut milk, canned

1/4 cup low sodium soy sauce

2 Tablespoons fish sauce

2 Tablespoons honey

1/3 cup peanut butter, creamy

1/4 cup thai red curry paste

3/4 lb boneless, skinless chicken breast

8 ounces cremini mushrooms, sliced

2 red peppers, chopped

1 inch fresh ginger, grated

2 cloves garlic, minced

4 squares ramen noodles

Juice of 1 lime

3 cups baby spinach or kale

1/3 cup fresh cilantro or basil

roasted pepitas for garnishing

For me it is easiest to read through and gather the ingredients from the recipe that I will be using all at once. It's less back and forth to the fridge and pantry. So clear off a spot on your kitchen counter top and get to gathering! Pour the broth, coconut milk, soy sauce, fish sauce, honey, peanut butter and red curry paste into the instapot. Next, throw in your raw chicken into the pot. I used frozen breast tenders and add a few minutes to the cook time. Now for the mushrooms, peppers, ginger and garlic. Place the lid on and set to high pressure manual for 13 minutes if your chicken is frozen and 10 minutes if thawed.

Once this step is done you can do a quick release to release the steam and pressure. Remove chicken. Let sit for 5 minutes cool and then shred it. Throw chicken back in. Add in noodles, lime juice and kale or spinach. These noodles are gluten free and delicious. I love noodles and there are so many different kinds to choose from. These have the perfect texture and hold up well in this ramen. I purchased mine from Sprouts. Set to sauté and allow this to cook until noodles are done which should be 5-7 minutes. Toss some in a bowl, garnish and dig in! See! So easy!

Stovetop Instructions.

Can you do this on the stove top? Of course! Do the same in a large soup pot and bring the ingredients to a simmer and let sit for 15 minutes or until chicken has cooked through.

Once this step is done remove chicken. Let sit for 5 minutes cool and then shred it. Throw it back in. Add noodles, spinach or kale and lime juice. Continue to simmer for 5-7 or until noodles are done.

Toss some in a bowl, garnish and enjoy!

Let's Start Fall Off Right

Baked Brie and Sangria

I love fall. There is no way around it. So many good things come with fall, crisp air, flannel, warm blanket, crackling fires, and pumpkin everything. This year I am feeling extra festive and want to do all the things. Also. Lets talk about how the food that comes with fall is nothing short of a blessing from the Lord. Too far? On the weekends we revolve around food. Here are a few of our fall favorites!

Baked Brie. Baked brie is warm and gooey cheese with a flakey pie crust exterior. Eat it with a sturdy cracker or slices of pink lady apple. If you aren’t sure about Brie start with a mild version, such as, President Brie Soft Ripened. It is mild but still flavorful. If you want something a little more robust go for Camembert.

Fall Sangria. This drink is slightly sweet yet not overbearingly so. It is crisp, so perfect for those in-between fall days where the sun is still warming us up more than it probably should be. This is not necessarily the fanciest of cocktails, enter boxed wine, but is delicious nonetheless.

Baked Brie

1 pie crust (recipe below) or 1 thawed sheet of puff pastry in a pinch

12 oz wheel of brie

Jam of your choice (fig, apple cinnamon, raspberry, jalapeño)

1/4 cup walnuts (optional)

1 large egg white + 1 tablespoon (15ml) water

Pie Crust:

1 1/4 cup flour

1/4 tsp salt

1/2 cup butter (1 stick), cold and diced

1/4 cup ice water

Preheat the oven to 350F.

Whisk the egg white and water together in a small bowl and set aside.

If you have never made your own pie crust let me tell you how simple it is. Do you see the short ingredient list up there? Simple. I am going to tell you the easiest way, in my option, to throw this together. Grab your food processor and put the blade attachment on it. Toss in the flour, salt and butter. Place the lid on and pulse until the butter appears like small sand like particles. Turn the food processor on and SLOWLY stream the ice water in. When the dough comes together and becomes a ball stop streaming the water, even if you haven’t used all the water. Heavily flour a clean surface. Turn the ball of dough out onto the floured surface. Using a rolling pin roll the dough into a flat circle. This does not have to be a perfect circle.

If you skipped the pie crust and grabbed puff pastry roll the puff pastry out.

Place the brie in the center of the dough. Place a couple spoonfuls of jam (optional) on top of the brie. If you want to add the walnuts place them on top of the jam. Now tuck the brie in with the dough blanket like you would your child. I suggest using a large spatula to transfer it to a dish with enough of a lip to catch any cheese or jam that might find its way out during baking. Brush the top of the dough with the egg wash and pop it in the oven. If you don’t have a brush in your culinary arsenal just use your fingers. I promise it will be just fine ;)

Bake for 25-30 minutes. Let rest for 5 minutes before serving with crackers, sliced apples and pears.


This recipe is 6 servings. If you are hosting a larger group feel free to double or triple this recipe. I went ahead and doubled it for a small group of four. It is so simple to throw together and is definitely a crowd pleaser. If you spring for the Bota Box you can even quadruple this recipe and have left over wine. It took about 5 whole minutes to chop and throw all these items into a container and then “set it and forget it”!

2 cups pears

a few orange slices

2 cinnamon sticks

2 Tablespoons apricot jam

3 oz orange liquor, such as, Cointreau

1 750ml bottle of Chardonnay or Sauv Blanc

Place all items in a container. Cover and place in fridge over night. Serve over ice. Garnish with a cinnamon stick and a few extra slices of pear in the glass and enjoy.

Both recipes are easy and crowd pleasers. Try them out and see what you think! Happy Fall!